Most people realize that cheating is morally wrong because of that most 

cheaters face a subconscious conflict within themselves.

Here are a few signs of a Cheater:

1.      Your partner starts working late.

2.      Your partner no longer shows interest in having sex with you.

3.      Your partner changes his or her behavior.

4.      Your partner comes home with the smell of perfume or cologne.

5.      Your partner comes home and takes a shower before saying Hello.

6.      Your partner hides their cell phone.

7.      Your partner starts texting more than usual.

8.      Your partner starts hanging out with new people/friends.

9.      Your partner starts staying out late at night.

10.  Your partner starts taking extra care about their appearance.

Note: Just because your partner displays some of these signs does not 

definitely mean he/she is cheating, it is always better to have proof in 

your hands before accusing.    

Infidelity Doesn’t Mean Divorce 

Surveys reveal that the top thing married people would never forgive in 

their spouses is infidelity and yet many marriages survive affairs and come out stronger.

Oftentimes the proof of an infidelity investigation brings the situation into the open so it 

can be dealt with.  The majority of the time the fundamental problems in the relationship 

can be repaired.  By exposing the problem areas in a relationship, marriage counseling 

can help repair the damages of infidelity.  

Business owners face more than claims from employees or customers. They also find that partner businesses may be cheating them as well. Service providers might charge them for services that were never performed. Vendors might substitute different items in an order or ship less than what was bought, hoping the error will be overlooked. Organizations might run up large debts before declaring bankruptcy. As above, these are often honest businesses faced with hard times who decide to step over the line just a little. 

In these hard times, businesses have to protect themselves from these kinds of situations. More companies are hiring surveillance companies to investigate routine activities even if fraud is not suspected. The cost is a fraction of what will be lost in a dishonest transaction and buys not just financial protection but peace of mind.

Being a former Police Officer and FBI Agent, I know there are always two sides to every story. During my years as a private investigator, I have seen our investigators catch several men and women cheating on Valentine’s Day.  We all know Valentine’s Day as a special day to exchange flowers, and candy with those we love.  As a result, we always see a dramatic increase in infidelity cases near Valentine’s Day.   

Unlike the TV show, our investigations do not dramatize infidelity in a relationship. Our investigations are focused on the truth however good or bad it maybe.  When clients call our office they always say they would never forgive their spouse for infidelity.  Oftentimes our infidelity investigations provide clients with the peace of mind they need to rebuild there relationship.  One of the worst fears for anyone in a relationship is the possibility of infidelity from a mate.  

How can you tell when your mate maybe unfaithful? 

TIPS: Listed below are common warning signs that could indicate a problem in any relationship.    Excessive Phone Calls and Computer Time

Having a Need for Privacy

Having a Renewed Attention to Appearance

Working a Lot of Late Hours  

Changes in the Relationship

No longer wearing a wedding ring

Excessive Text messages Saying “It is all your imagination” 

Again, it is important to emphasize that suspicion is not proof.  Any of these examples could be completely normal behavior. This is why the added information provided from an infidelity investigation specialist could confirm your suspicions. 

Infidelity Does not Mean Divorce.

 I have seen first hand that our infidelity investigations can bring a situation into the open potentially allowing couples to deal with the issues in the relationship. Sometimes our investigations reveal fundamental problems in the relationship that can not be overcome. Other times, counseling can help repair the relationship. I don’t view our infidelity investigations as the end of a relationship. I believe that if you keep ignoring the problems in a relationship the problems will only get worse.  If infidelity is confirmed and confronted, you may be able to save your relationship and have many happy years together.